Astagfirullah May Allah guide me to the right path. Make me among the righteous. Forgive me. And keep me away from backbiting and all sins. Bless me with a good heart and a great life in both worlds. Ameen suma Ameen
If you forget and accidentally backbite someone make dua for them and their parents immediately after u remember and ask Allah SWT to forgive you and make it easy for you to never backbite again … because is not worth it getting someone else’s sins and they take all your good deeds . If you think the person will forgive you with clean a heart u can also ask forgiveness from them also .
Praise your brothers and sisters in their absence, critique them only when you are alone with them. Become a curtain to guard secrets and Allah will guide your secrets on Qiyamat. ❤
ALLAH give hidayat protect help us every kind of sin's every moment of life Choose me us your most favorite people Ameen YA ALLAH please don't leave Alone your beloved poor umatey Waiting your merical YA ALLAH please ❤
اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد صلاة تنجينا بها من جميع الأحوال والآفات وتقضي لنا جميع الحاجات وتطهرنا بها من جميع السيئات وترفعنا بها عندك أعلى الدرجات و تبلغنا بها أقص الغايات من جميع الخيرات فى الحياة وبعد الممات❤
This can happen very easily online. Its easy to mock a celebrity, easy to comment under posts, or even agree with some comments mocking. Easy to like a video thats backbiting another person or slandering no matter how big of a celebrity they are. And its also common to backbite and talk bad about some Shaykhs under a comment section just because people dont agree with them. Mocking them. May Allah Azzawajal, the almighty, Al-Ghafoor and Al-Ghaffar protect us and remind us, guide us and make us repentant and firm within our connection with him.
Several times in a day, you make a strong promise to Allah swt (اِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَاِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعٖينُ. اِھْدِنَا الصِّرَاطَ الْمُسْتَقٖيمَ. Allah said (وَاَنِ اعْبُدُونٖى هٰذَا صِرَاطٌ مُسْتَقٖيمٌ 36/61) OBEYING Allah alone is the essence of SALAT. But you obey Allah and (غیر اللہ) both. You make false promises several times in a day. There is no consistency in your saying and doing. You make yourself your deeds in the sight of Allah: ("كَبُرَ مَقْتًا" عِنْدَ اللّٰهِ اَنْ تَقُولُوا مَا لَا تَفْعَلُونَ) Is this the purpose of your Salat to make the most hateful your deeds in the sight of Allah?. Think wisely and emotionally.
*Back biting and slander by family members is the worst poison. The victim suffer silently. Affected her/his mental health and increase cortisol leads to development of cancer due to stress.*
Talking about something or someone when they aren’t is gossip then the world is limited to learn. Everyone would speak of self and learning in a broader way is limited. My understanding of gossip is to trash someone without knowing well and making it an absolute truth though you know so little just to belittle that person.
(يَا اَيُّهَا الرَّسُولُ "بَلِّغْ مَا اُنْزِلَ اِلَيْكَ مِنْ رَبِّكَ" فقط nothing else - لیس غیر ما انزل اللہ - وَاِنْ لَمْ تَفْعَلْ فَمَا بَلَّغْتَ رِسَالَتَهُ وَاللّٰهُ يَعْصِمُكَ مِنَ النَّاسِ اِنَّ اللّٰهَ لَا يَهْدِى الْقَوْمَ الْكَافِرٖينَ. 5/67) - Did Prophet disobey the above order? While Prophet said: (قُلْ اِنّٖى اَخَافُ اِنْ عَصَيْتُ رَبّٖى عَذَابَ يَوْمٍ عَظٖيمٍ. 6/15) This saying is narrated by Allah swt. If we ignore, we will disobey both Allah and His Rasool. Relating (غیر ما انزل اللہ) to Prophet is a blaming him that he is a disobedient to Allah swt. Think honestly.
@@Muhmineen It depends on the situation. For example If you don't warn your community about a deceitful market trader who displays good vegetables and serves rotten ones, you'd be a cheat ! The caller to misguidance is worse than the market trader. Religion is more important than tomatoes.
What if someone is doing wrong to ourself and others. Is it sin to discussion about that wrong? The intention not to hurt that person by the discussion but how to get rid of it and how to save ourself from that wrong.
And Backbiting is a third of the torment of the grave, and it is one of the major sins. Therefore, do not speak about anyone in his absence and pray to God to protect your tongue from it.
my dads family has abused my mum for the past 22 years and now that im 19, over the past several years ive been learning more and more about the things theyve done and gradually growing more hostility and dislike towards them. however, my mum vents to me daily about the relatively smaller things they do (which hurt but are small enough to be able to ignore/leave to God). I dont even need to ask if this is wrong, i already know that me and my mum need to stop discussing their annoying behaviors. in fact, very slowly ive been bringing up these behaviours directly to my dad and once even directly to my grandma (one of the abusers) so something can ACTUALLY be done about it rather than passively backbiting/venting. i just want to know where it is okay for me to actually approach this situation/discuss it with someone. for example, my dads sister used to physically abuse my mum (this was around 20 years ago but i only found out about this a few years ago and was never addressed, everyone acts normal about it) and both her and my dads mum would accuse my mum of having boyfriends (when my mum wanted to visit her mum overseas, my dads mum said that she just wants to meet her boyfriend, dont let her go). i just want to know how i can stand up for me and my mum without accidentally sinning
I'm fairly certain this is exclusively only for Muslims. Also it depends on the laws as you have to obey the leader. In saudi, russia, china etc no but in west countries it should be allowed due to their freedom of speech/right to protest.
Thank you for this video ^^ but i have a serious question. What about when you speak with a psychologic therapist about the action in the family and how to react/protect ourselves/solving some issues ? Because of depression ect.. In that situation, is that permissibale to speak about another person when he is not around ?
If you make a mistake and backbite a person you should correct yourself by following it with saying something good about that person in the same place with the same people who heard you backbite. And Allah knows best.
Astaghfirulah I didn't know . I'm not the type to gossip ( shocking) but I discovered something bad about someone and I had to warn my mother about them so I told her what I knew even tho I know من ستر مسلما في الدنيا يستره الله في الاخرة . I hope I don't do this again
I'm confused whether I should tell my parents about what my in-laws do or not? How they make me suffer most of the time should I keep it to myself or should I share it with my parents?
@@salamamehndidesignjumapili3006and most of the times we don't need help because we knew that no other person can help or we seek such help more than help it is going to be a big mess but all we wanted to share is because we want to relive our mental pain, this needs specially for women.
Thank you i thought talking about small things was gibah , like me telling my mum how she was cheating off my paper (i didn't tell teacher nor did my mum told anyone , i just shared what happened with me)
Six ways to earn even after death 1. Give someone a copy of Qur'an, everytime they read it you earn 2. Donate a wheelchair to a hospital, everytime someone sick sits in it you earn 3. Participate in building a masjid 4. place a water-cooler in a public space 5. Plant a tree, everytime a human or animal sits in it's shade you gain 6.and the easiest, share this message with others, whenever someone reads it you gain.
so if a woman is cheating on her man and you know it and you want to tell the husband without having her put a target on your back for it, you can't really tell the husband of her cheating between just you and him?
If you confront them about the situation they become violent if you warn people about there bad behaviour yourself backbiting How are you supposed to tell people the truth about people unislamic behaviour
Talking shit is a great thing to do because it allows you to get it off your chest as apposed to keeping it in and letting it all explode one day but sure, allah knows best and thats why when bad things happen, people say, god is great. See the logic?
@@Apophis.004 LOL So are you saying Allah Never said YOU MUST COMMIT SIN ! 👿YES OR NO ! Or JUST SAY SHOW ME ! IF YOU ARE BRAVE ENOUGH ! Hahaha TAKBEER 🍻It’s you Are DRUNK ON ISLAM ☪️ FAIRYTALES 🧚♂️🧚♂️🧚♂️🧚♂️
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Astagfirullah
May Allah guide me to the right path. Make me among the righteous. Forgive me. And keep me away from backbiting and all sins. Bless me with a good heart and a great life in both worlds.
Ameen suma Ameen
Ameen! 🙏❤️
Make a dua not comment about it. What will a RUclips comment do for you.
If you forget and accidentally backbite someone make dua for them and their parents immediately after u remember and ask Allah SWT to forgive you and make it easy for you to never backbite again … because is not worth it getting someone else’s sins and they take all your good deeds . If you think the person will forgive you with clean a heart u can also ask forgiveness from them also .
Inshaallah,for all of us 🤲
Ameen
❤
Astagfirullah Astagfirullah Astagfirullah.
Astagfirullah,May Allah grant us guidance Aameen
May The Almighty ALLAH for give us all! Amen 😢
Thank you. We all have this issue, hard to overcome as a revert because you werent taught it was a sin. I have to ask forgiveness from those people
May Allah protect us and grant us a deep understanding and the ability to act in accordance with his pleasure ameen
Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah Subhanallah
May Allah guide us to the straight path,and give deep understanding of islam,❤
Yaa Allah Subhannah wa Ta'ala guide us and make us a good Muslim.
Ameen
Thanks for explaining this.
Subhanallah
Ameen
Allahu Akbar.. ohh Allah guide us to the right part
Sheikh Assaad, Shukran Lak, Jazakum Allahu khairan for beneficial knowledge concerning backbiting and new word "ta'n" meaning to slander.
Praise your brothers and sisters in their absence, critique them only when you are alone with them. Become a curtain to guard secrets and Allah will guide your secrets on Qiyamat. ❤
Masha allah subxana allah
Allah guide us and help us to say what is right and avoid wrong
اللهم صلي و سلم على نبينا محمد
امين 🤲🏼
امين 🤲🏼
may Allah protect us ameen
SAW❤
Allah Hu Akbar❤️❤️
{ Salallaahu A'layhi wa Sallam 🤍✨}.
May Allah guide us and forgive us
Astaghfirullah may Allah grant us knowledge
Aameen
ALLAH give hidayat protect help us every kind of sin's every moment of life Choose me us your most favorite people Ameen YA ALLAH please don't leave Alone your beloved poor umatey Waiting your merical YA ALLAH please ❤
اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد صلاة تنجينا بها من جميع الأحوال والآفات وتقضي لنا جميع الحاجات وتطهرنا بها من جميع السيئات وترفعنا بها عندك أعلى الدرجات و تبلغنا بها أقص الغايات من جميع الخيرات فى الحياة وبعد الممات❤
May Allah bless you sheikh! ❤❤
Astaghfieroelah Ya Allah safeguard us & forgive us al Ameen Ameen Ameen ❤❤❤
Astaghfiirulah, may Allah guide us
Thank you for informating t'an.
Thank You for the clear explanation.
استغفر الله العظيم و اتوب اليه ❤🎉😊
Astagfirullah.....
Saw❤❤❤❤
Allahu Akbar
May Allah forgive me and guide me to the right path and help me to stay away from backbiting sin Ameen
Astagfirullah. Ya Rabb please forgive me & help me not to backbite & white wash my tongue. Allahumma Ameen
This can happen very easily online. Its easy to mock a celebrity, easy to comment under posts, or even agree with some comments mocking.
Easy to like a video thats backbiting another person or slandering no matter how big of a celebrity they are.
And its also common to backbite and talk bad about some Shaykhs under a comment section just because people dont agree with them. Mocking them.
May Allah Azzawajal, the almighty, Al-Ghafoor and Al-Ghaffar protect us and remind us, guide us and make us repentant and firm within our connection with him.
Ameen
Several times in a day, you make a strong promise to Allah swt
(اِيَّاكَ نَعْبُدُ وَاِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعٖينُ. اِھْدِنَا الصِّرَاطَ الْمُسْتَقٖيمَ. Allah said (وَاَنِ اعْبُدُونٖى هٰذَا صِرَاطٌ مُسْتَقٖيمٌ 36/61)
OBEYING Allah alone is the essence of SALAT. But you obey Allah and (غیر اللہ) both. You make false promises several times in a day. There is no consistency in your saying and doing. You make yourself your deeds in the sight of Allah:
("كَبُرَ مَقْتًا" عِنْدَ اللّٰهِ اَنْ تَقُولُوا مَا لَا تَفْعَلُونَ)
Is this the purpose of your Salat to make the most hateful your deeds in the sight of Allah?. Think wisely and emotionally.
*Back biting and slander by family members is the worst poison. The victim suffer silently. Affected her/his mental health and increase cortisol leads to development of cancer due to stress.*
Allahummah fa ayyumma muuminin sababtuhu faj'al dhaalika lahu-qurbatan ilayka yawmal-qiyaamat 🤲🏾🤲🏾♥️💓💘💝
اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى اله وصحبه وسلم
Absolutely
❤❤
Allah forgive our sinis
Talking about something or someone when they aren’t is gossip then the world is limited to learn. Everyone would speak of self and learning in a broader way is limited. My understanding of gossip is to trash someone without knowing well and making it an absolute truth though you know so little just to belittle that person.
Astaghfirullahalazhiim
(يَا اَيُّهَا الرَّسُولُ "بَلِّغْ مَا اُنْزِلَ اِلَيْكَ مِنْ رَبِّكَ" فقط nothing else - لیس غیر ما انزل اللہ - وَاِنْ لَمْ تَفْعَلْ فَمَا بَلَّغْتَ رِسَالَتَهُ وَاللّٰهُ يَعْصِمُكَ مِنَ النَّاسِ اِنَّ اللّٰهَ لَا يَهْدِى الْقَوْمَ الْكَافِرٖينَ. 5/67) -
Did Prophet disobey the above order? While Prophet said:
(قُلْ اِنّٖى اَخَافُ اِنْ عَصَيْتُ رَبّٖى عَذَابَ يَوْمٍ عَظٖيمٍ. 6/15)
This saying is narrated by Allah swt. If we ignore, we will disobey both Allah and His Rasool. Relating (غیر ما انزل اللہ) to Prophet is a blaming him that he is a disobedient to Allah swt. Think honestly.
May Allah forgive us😢😢😢😢
I heard so many things there not true about me that i just lived like that my family knows who i im as a person and close friends ☺️✨✨✨
People do know what backbiting is.
People don't know that there are 6 cases where it is, at least, permissible if not recommended or even obligatory.
Can you please present this to us?
It is true, but it is very specific and in certain situations and is not the kind of gossip that people do every day
@@emre1678
What do you mean? Religion is clear.
The one that's been wronged, but u can't go around telling everyone, just 1 person who can actually help.
@@Muhmineen
It depends on the situation.
For example If you don't warn your community about a deceitful market trader who displays good vegetables and serves rotten ones, you'd be a cheat !
The caller to misguidance is worse than the market trader.
Religion is more important than tomatoes.
What if someone is doing wrong to ourself and others. Is it sin to discussion about that wrong? The intention not to hurt that person by the discussion but how to get rid of it and how to save ourself from that wrong.
And Backbiting is a third of the torment of the grave, and it is one of the major sins. Therefore, do not speak about anyone in his absence and pray to God to protect your tongue from it.
my dads family has abused my mum for the past 22 years and now that im 19, over the past several years ive been learning more and more about the things theyve done and gradually growing more hostility and dislike towards them. however, my mum vents to me daily about the relatively smaller things they do (which hurt but are small enough to be able to ignore/leave to God). I dont even need to ask if this is wrong, i already know that me and my mum need to stop discussing their annoying behaviors. in fact, very slowly ive been bringing up these behaviours directly to my dad and once even directly to my grandma (one of the abusers) so something can ACTUALLY be done about it rather than passively backbiting/venting. i just want to know where it is okay for me to actually approach this situation/discuss it with someone. for example, my dads sister used to physically abuse my mum (this was around 20 years ago but i only found out about this a few years ago and was never addressed, everyone acts normal about it) and both her and my dads mum would accuse my mum of having boyfriends (when my mum wanted to visit her mum overseas, my dads mum said that she just wants to meet her boyfriend, dont let her go). i just want to know how i can stand up for me and my mum without accidentally sinning
What if we're criticizing an unjust leader? Will that be counted as backbiting, too?🙏
I'm fairly certain this is exclusively only for Muslims.
Also it depends on the laws as you have to obey the leader. In saudi, russia, china etc no but in west countries it should be allowed due to their freedom of speech/right to protest.
No it's right and wrong is not exclusive to just Muslims.
I don't say it behind their backs because I want them to hear but I just joke with them and sometimes they do the same
Thank you for this video ^^ but i have a serious question.
What about when you speak with a psychologic therapist about the action in the family and how to react/protect ourselves/solving some issues ?
Because of depression ect..
In that situation, is that permissibale to speak about another person when he is not around ?
If you make a mistake and backbite a person you should correct yourself by following it with saying something good about that person in the same place with the same people who heard you backbite. And Allah knows best.
😢
..I like the way you sit...
What about venting your problems to someone or telling a story about your life
If that is not stressed by the person whom he is talking against...
AstagfiruLloha wa atoobu ilahi
nahhh thank u brother.....
In Arabic Ta'n means to stab or shank wich shows the seriousness of the sin
Astaghfirulah I didn't know . I'm not the type to gossip ( shocking) but I discovered something bad about someone and I had to warn my mother about them so I told her what I knew even tho I know من ستر مسلما في الدنيا يستره الله في الاخرة . I hope I don't do this again
Is it back biting, if you have been wronged by someone, and you confide in another but reveal their wrong to the person you confide in.
What if someone is traumatising me or mentally hurting me..
Sub haana Llah.
What's the second type?
ليس طعنا إنما قال بهته أي قلت فيه بهتانا
But if someone hurt my feelings and I want to share it with anyone and complain, I think it's allowed😅
I'm confused whether I should tell my parents about what my in-laws do or not? How they make me suffer most of the time should I keep it to myself or should I share it with my parents?
U should share it so u can get help if they're abusing u may Allah easy ur pain
@@salamamehndidesignjumapili3006and most of the times we don't need help because we knew that no other person can help or we seek such help more than help it is going to be a big mess but all we wanted to share is because we want to relive our mental pain, this needs specially for women.
As far as I know if someone is doing zulum or torture or abuse you can share with others.
What if i say it to describe my situation to seek help.
does this apply talking about nonbelievers too?
New type of gossip is reading comments😅 no escaping it nowadays
❤😢😮😅
Thank you i thought talking about small things was gibah , like me telling my mum how she was cheating off my paper (i didn't tell teacher nor did my mum told anyone , i just shared what happened with me)
Ok, what about if you are talking about yourself or issues and they happened to be part or important aspect of the story?
What if you are informing someone about smth important
Six ways to earn even after death
1. Give someone a copy of Qur'an, everytime they read it you earn
2. Donate a wheelchair to a hospital, everytime someone sick sits in it you earn
3. Participate in building a masjid
4. place a water-cooler in a public space
5. Plant a tree, everytime a human or animal sits in it's shade you gain
6.and the easiest, share this message with others, whenever someone reads it you gain.
Thanks for the video brother
Astagfirullah
What to do if I did
so if a woman is cheating on her man and you know it and you want to tell the husband without having her put a target on your back for it, you can't really tell the husband of her cheating between just you and him?
if they are doing wrong or have not done right even then ?
What if you hide their name? Curious. Say the person never met the person I'm speaking of, and I remove their name entirely?
Can we talk about it if they’re exposing themselves to everyone?
I do have a question. Can a Muslim warn about a Muslim to another Muslim even if it is jard Truth. You know to save them?
Yes
Warn them as you can, but don't force it if they retaliate
Exmuslim sahil, adam seeker Urdu, watch them to know the reality of islam.
I wanna complain to someone about smth someone did that bothered me personally is this backbiting?
If it's something that hurts you.. I'm not sure, but I believe it's better if you stay patient about it.
@@adnanbasic1291 I guess so,thnks
Adam seeker urdu, Exmuslim sahil , open challenge to all the Muslims to prove Islam true.
So, is it backbiting when you have to inform others/ the law about sexual abuse to a minor.
That's reporting not back biting and it needs four witnesses.
In this case gossip will not solve this, report to authority's will, and in the case of education for prevention no name should be mentions .
And talking good about people ...?
If you confront them about the situation they become violent if you warn people about there bad behaviour yourself backbiting
How are you supposed to tell people the truth about people unislamic behaviour
BACK biting will send u to HELL!
Talking shit is a great thing to do because it allows you to get it off your chest as apposed to keeping it in and letting it all explode one day but sure, allah knows best and thats why when bad things happen, people say, god is great. See the logic?
No, couldn't find any in your argument
No one is stopping you from speaking to Allah or getting advice from someone
God is greatest*
Don't know what point you're trying to make. You're always free to complain and vent to Allah himself. It's not called gossip then.
WRONG ! ABDUL ALLAH SAID YOU ! Must Commit SIN ( DIDNT HE ) Try Harder Next time please 🙏 TAKBEER Cheers 🍻NEXT 😂😂
What are u onto?
Bro you drank too much beers come back when you soober up.
🤡
Please explain when you have sobered up
@@Apophis.004 LOL So are you saying Allah Never said YOU MUST COMMIT SIN ! 👿YES OR NO ! Or JUST SAY SHOW ME ! IF YOU ARE BRAVE ENOUGH ! Hahaha TAKBEER 🍻It’s you Are DRUNK ON ISLAM ☪️ FAIRYTALES 🧚♂️🧚♂️🧚♂️🧚♂️
Subhanallah
❤
Ameen
Me too.
Don't expose your sins